Recently I returned to Memphis, Tennessee to preach the funeral of a long time family friend. In 1980, I moved to Memphis to go to seminary. I was 22 years old. Two years later, I married Kathy. Five years later we headed back to New York with our first child with us and a second on the way! During my twenties two of the people who impacted me most were Jerry and Marti Parker. Marti just went to be with the Lord. After a difficult battle with cancer, she is home with Jesus.
The Parkers were married for 49 years. To see one was to see the other. They were inseparable. They had a rock solid faith, and a deep love for our Lord and for each other. They loved the local church and served the Lord faithfully for many years. It was my privilege to serve with them for seven years at the Faith Baptist Church, in Atoka, Tennessee. When the family asked me to return to do the funeral, I was humbled and honored. Marti Parker was a Proverbs 31 woman. Jerry is one of the best friends I've ever had.
They knew how to keep the fire of faith burning. My friendship with them helped keep the fire burning in my own heart for the gospel and all the things that matter most in life. Returning to Memphis brought a rush of memories and emotion. It was there that I grew as a young pastor. It was there I was trained at a great seminary. It was there that I developed roots in the ministry with some of the finest people I have ever known in my life.
Looking back 31 years makes me all the more grateful for the hand of God upon our lives throughout the years. When you look back, trace the hand of God. Reflect on His blessings and His goodness. It will amaze you. Life is never perfect, but God is always faithful. Knowing that is enough.
One week ago today, we buried Marti's body in a cemetary in Memphis. But trust me - she is not there - she is with the Lord for the Bible says to be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord. She fought a good fight. She kept the faith. She finished her course. May we do the same.
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