Last night I got to speak to around 60 students who meet weekly in a gathering of the ministry now called CRU. It's the ministry formerly known as Campus Crusade for Christ. For years I've had the privilege of ministering typically once a semester as a guest speaker to their gathering. Last night was one of the best yet.
I walked into the auditorium - the Maxwell auditorium - housed in the Maxwell School of Leadership. I told the students as I began so speak last night that earliert walking up the hill I asked myself - 'Who will be here tonight?' If Jesus doesn't come first, and if the Lord grants us more years - then where will the students I speak to tonight be in 20 years? What will their lives be like? What about their families? What about ministry God will do through them in all spheres of life? What about their communities, this nation and even the world? I knew I would be speaking to difference makers.
I had posted on Facebook that I was headed there to speak. Shortly before I spoke, I noticed that a pastor who is a friend of mine from Florida had commented on my status to say that both his parents had graduated from SU - one in 1929 and one in 1940. I was able to share that story with the students. Who knew that those two SU grads would marry, have a son - and he would be used by God for great impact for the kingdom of God? God knew. He writes the story. History becomes His story.
I taught on the passages the leadership had asked me to speak on as they have themes for this semester. They also gave me the freedom to challenge them in any way I felt led. So, I finished with 2 Peter 1:3-10, a passage God has blazing in front of my face the past two weeks. They welcomed it it seemed to me, and I encourage you to read it and consider it as well.
You see to Keep the Fire Burning, I believe you need to love your community. I have long been an SU fan. I have a daughter and son-in-law who are both graduates of Syracuse University. I still love that place. I will be going their tonight for Midnight Madness - to support our basketball teams and some friends and encourage them.
I heard someone say recently that 'if you are going to be somewhere, be all there'. I like that. In ministry, you may find it easy to think about where you wish you were. God has you where you are if you have been obedient in following Him. So stop resisting the challenges, and welcome them as growth opportunities. One word: persevere. The Lord will strengthen your heart. Love where you live. Love the Lord where you live. Love the people where you live. Jesus does. He wants to love them through you. It might even start by speaking to a small group meeting in a small auditorium on a huge campus like I did last night. Most people will never know we met. Life was going on all around us throughout the city. I pray for someone it made an eternity of difference and will in the future.
Be faithful. Be steadfast. Be encouraged. God is at work. I saw it last night in the eyes of young men and young women at Syracuse University. Glory to His name!
Friday, October 14, 2011
Tuesday, October 11, 2011
Perseverance
Today was our day of prayer. Our pastoral team takes one day a month where we go off campus and spend the day at a location that has become a great place for us to meet with the Lord. Upon arrival, we typically each go to our own area that has become a place of prayer and seeking the Lord.
I don't say this to draw attention to our prayers. The truth is I feel I have so much to learn in this area. What I know is that the Bible says of pastors that we are to 'give ourselves to prayer and the word' (see Acts 6:4). I'm not sure that defines the role of the modern day pastor. We do a lot of things. If we are not careful, we don't spend much time in the word or in prayer.
My time with the Lord was launched by a phone call from a former member. Coach Rick Moody, for whom I have the highest regard returned a call I had made to him last night. I had called to let him know I appreciated him and he was on my mind. He called back this morning and we talked.
I asked Coach what was the greatest life lesson you can learn from basketball. His answer? Perseverance. Wow. That was powerful. He talked about how we all have struggles, but to not talk about our struggles. Struggles are an opportunity for growth.
He referenced the book of James. This morning, I dug deep into the subject of perseverance in the word of God and followed that with prayer. Here are a few things I was reminded of today:
'Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.' James 1:2-4, NIV
'Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles and let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us.' Hebrews 12:1, NIV
'But you, Timothy, are a man of God; so run from all these evil things. Pursue righteousness and a godly life, along with faith, love, perseverance and gentleness.' 1 Timothy 6:11
'For whatever was written in earlier times was written for our instruction, so that through perseverance and the encouragement of the Scriptures we might have hope. Now may the God who gives perseverance and encouragement grant you to be of the same mind with one another according to Christ Jesus.' Romans 15:4-5
The concept of persevering means to endure, or stand fast. It means to bear patiently. Struggles are a time for you to grow. Don't resist them. Grow from them. It will help keep the fire burning!
I don't say this to draw attention to our prayers. The truth is I feel I have so much to learn in this area. What I know is that the Bible says of pastors that we are to 'give ourselves to prayer and the word' (see Acts 6:4). I'm not sure that defines the role of the modern day pastor. We do a lot of things. If we are not careful, we don't spend much time in the word or in prayer.
My time with the Lord was launched by a phone call from a former member. Coach Rick Moody, for whom I have the highest regard returned a call I had made to him last night. I had called to let him know I appreciated him and he was on my mind. He called back this morning and we talked.
I asked Coach what was the greatest life lesson you can learn from basketball. His answer? Perseverance. Wow. That was powerful. He talked about how we all have struggles, but to not talk about our struggles. Struggles are an opportunity for growth.
He referenced the book of James. This morning, I dug deep into the subject of perseverance in the word of God and followed that with prayer. Here are a few things I was reminded of today:
'Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.' James 1:2-4, NIV
'Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles and let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us.' Hebrews 12:1, NIV
'But you, Timothy, are a man of God; so run from all these evil things. Pursue righteousness and a godly life, along with faith, love, perseverance and gentleness.' 1 Timothy 6:11
'For whatever was written in earlier times was written for our instruction, so that through perseverance and the encouragement of the Scriptures we might have hope. Now may the God who gives perseverance and encouragement grant you to be of the same mind with one another according to Christ Jesus.' Romans 15:4-5
The concept of persevering means to endure, or stand fast. It means to bear patiently. Struggles are a time for you to grow. Don't resist them. Grow from them. It will help keep the fire burning!
Monday, October 10, 2011
Memphis
Recently I returned to Memphis, Tennessee to preach the funeral of a long time family friend. In 1980, I moved to Memphis to go to seminary. I was 22 years old. Two years later, I married Kathy. Five years later we headed back to New York with our first child with us and a second on the way! During my twenties two of the people who impacted me most were Jerry and Marti Parker. Marti just went to be with the Lord. After a difficult battle with cancer, she is home with Jesus.
The Parkers were married for 49 years. To see one was to see the other. They were inseparable. They had a rock solid faith, and a deep love for our Lord and for each other. They loved the local church and served the Lord faithfully for many years. It was my privilege to serve with them for seven years at the Faith Baptist Church, in Atoka, Tennessee. When the family asked me to return to do the funeral, I was humbled and honored. Marti Parker was a Proverbs 31 woman. Jerry is one of the best friends I've ever had.
They knew how to keep the fire of faith burning. My friendship with them helped keep the fire burning in my own heart for the gospel and all the things that matter most in life. Returning to Memphis brought a rush of memories and emotion. It was there that I grew as a young pastor. It was there I was trained at a great seminary. It was there that I developed roots in the ministry with some of the finest people I have ever known in my life.
Looking back 31 years makes me all the more grateful for the hand of God upon our lives throughout the years. When you look back, trace the hand of God. Reflect on His blessings and His goodness. It will amaze you. Life is never perfect, but God is always faithful. Knowing that is enough.
One week ago today, we buried Marti's body in a cemetary in Memphis. But trust me - she is not there - she is with the Lord for the Bible says to be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord. She fought a good fight. She kept the faith. She finished her course. May we do the same.
The Parkers were married for 49 years. To see one was to see the other. They were inseparable. They had a rock solid faith, and a deep love for our Lord and for each other. They loved the local church and served the Lord faithfully for many years. It was my privilege to serve with them for seven years at the Faith Baptist Church, in Atoka, Tennessee. When the family asked me to return to do the funeral, I was humbled and honored. Marti Parker was a Proverbs 31 woman. Jerry is one of the best friends I've ever had.
They knew how to keep the fire of faith burning. My friendship with them helped keep the fire burning in my own heart for the gospel and all the things that matter most in life. Returning to Memphis brought a rush of memories and emotion. It was there that I grew as a young pastor. It was there I was trained at a great seminary. It was there that I developed roots in the ministry with some of the finest people I have ever known in my life.
Looking back 31 years makes me all the more grateful for the hand of God upon our lives throughout the years. When you look back, trace the hand of God. Reflect on His blessings and His goodness. It will amaze you. Life is never perfect, but God is always faithful. Knowing that is enough.
One week ago today, we buried Marti's body in a cemetary in Memphis. But trust me - she is not there - she is with the Lord for the Bible says to be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord. She fought a good fight. She kept the faith. She finished her course. May we do the same.
Sunday, October 9, 2011
The Furnace Room
I wrote recently of a trip to New Hampshire to visit the Higher Ground Baptist Church. I thoroughly enjoyed the opportunity to share with 29 leaders on Tuesday night. I was blessed to serve at a prayer tent at the Deerfield fair. I was especially blessed to learn that the idea had grown out of a breakout session at Keep the Fire Burning. In God's providence, I was able to be there and minister with the people the very week of the fair. I also was blessed to be able to preach three times on Sunday.
The secret to me of the Lord's hand upon Higher Ground is the prayer ministry. The pastor is a man of prayer. He doesn't just talk about prayer, he prays. He doesn't just challenge the people to pray, he prays. In fact his wife encouraged him to show me his 'prayer room'. Most never see it. In fact I was only the second or third to ever be given a glimpse. We walked up the stairs into the attic of a two story house and there was a small room - perhaps six by six, devoted to prayer. I knew in that moment the secret of a life well lived, and a ministry that was experiencing fruit and the hand and favor of God. I was struck by the simple but profound decor of the room, and humbled by the diligence and focus of prayer that must take place in that room by that pastor.
Wednesday night, I attended the prayer meeting called 'the school of the Spirit'. The crowd was small, but that was not an issue. The Lord was there. I would simply call it the most satisfying unhurried, focused time of prayer I have shared with other believers in a long time. We began around 7. The prayer meeting ended at 10:20. The people were earnest, the word was shared, prayers were offered and the face of God was sought by His people. I know the Lord strongly dealt with me in a couple of ways that night. It felt like the first time in a long time I have been unhurried and undistracted in prayer.
I told the pastor that the prayer meeting was the furnace to his ministry. I was not telling him anything he didn't already know. I just wanted to affirm what to me was obvious. I left Nottingham, New Hampshire feeling like a first grader when it comes to prayer. Now there is nothing wrong with being in first grade, unless you are 53 years old and have been saved for 38 years. I've got a lot to learn. I'm not sure I will ever be the same - and that's a good thing. So you want to keep the fire burning? Stoke the fire in your own personal prayer quarters and spend time praying with the people of God.
The secret to me of the Lord's hand upon Higher Ground is the prayer ministry. The pastor is a man of prayer. He doesn't just talk about prayer, he prays. He doesn't just challenge the people to pray, he prays. In fact his wife encouraged him to show me his 'prayer room'. Most never see it. In fact I was only the second or third to ever be given a glimpse. We walked up the stairs into the attic of a two story house and there was a small room - perhaps six by six, devoted to prayer. I knew in that moment the secret of a life well lived, and a ministry that was experiencing fruit and the hand and favor of God. I was struck by the simple but profound decor of the room, and humbled by the diligence and focus of prayer that must take place in that room by that pastor.
Wednesday night, I attended the prayer meeting called 'the school of the Spirit'. The crowd was small, but that was not an issue. The Lord was there. I would simply call it the most satisfying unhurried, focused time of prayer I have shared with other believers in a long time. We began around 7. The prayer meeting ended at 10:20. The people were earnest, the word was shared, prayers were offered and the face of God was sought by His people. I know the Lord strongly dealt with me in a couple of ways that night. It felt like the first time in a long time I have been unhurried and undistracted in prayer.
I told the pastor that the prayer meeting was the furnace to his ministry. I was not telling him anything he didn't already know. I just wanted to affirm what to me was obvious. I left Nottingham, New Hampshire feeling like a first grader when it comes to prayer. Now there is nothing wrong with being in first grade, unless you are 53 years old and have been saved for 38 years. I've got a lot to learn. I'm not sure I will ever be the same - and that's a good thing. So you want to keep the fire burning? Stoke the fire in your own personal prayer quarters and spend time praying with the people of God.
Saturday, October 8, 2011
A little place called Nottingham
I was sitting in class at Liberty University in May, 2010. It was my sixth of eight classes toward the hopeful completion of a Doctor of Ministry degree. One of my professors told the story of coming to Christ at the age of sixteen after a co-worker at a hospital invited him to a 'little Baptist church'.
Something happened in my heart in that moment. A fire was lit. I asked him the next day what the name of that town was. He told me and I googled it. Addyson, New York is a small town of about 1800 in the southern tier of New York State, my home state. Dr. Ron Hawkins was the professor who told the story. Today, he is the provost of the largest Christian University in the world, Liberty University, with over 60,000 students.
So here's my question: Do you think the guy who invited Ron to church, knew all God had for him in the future? And the next question is who is going to towns like Addyson to pastor a church today? Who among the faithful will go to the forgotten because it matters forever? To be sure we need ministry in the cities and the suburbs, but our land is also dotted with numerous communities no one knows about. There are no such things as small churches. Every church can have a global impact. That church in Addyson sure did.
I reflected personally on the situation as well. I grew up in one of those towns. I was born in Malone, New York, the county seat town of Franklin county on the northern border of New York. I grew up in a little town adjacent to Malone - Burke, New York. The population then was about 1300 people. I am so thankful that the Lord got the gospel to me in that place known by few, but known by Him.
Out of a desire to be good stewards of what the Lord has entrusted us with, the church I now serve, Northside Baptist Church in Liverpool, New York, began to reach out to pastors and leaders last year with our first of an annual conference we call 'Keep the Fire Burning'. We had hoped for at least 100 people from 50 churches. 200 people came from 82 churches from 7 states. Six of those were members of Higher Ground Baptist Church in Nottingham, New Hampshire.
Recently, I challenged our pastoral team to begin to plan a trip to a ministry somewhere here in the northeast to view up close and personal what God is doing in other places. I wanted us also to consider how we can best encourage pastors, leaders and churches. Just a few days ago, I drove the 371 miles to Nottingham, New Hampshire. I wanted to meet the people who had made a six and a half hour drive to stir the fires in their hearts. What I discovered humbled me, encouraged me, and taught me many things. I will share more on that next time.
It may be a little place called Nottingham, but God knows where it is. I can hardly wait to tell you about it. Stay tuned!
Something happened in my heart in that moment. A fire was lit. I asked him the next day what the name of that town was. He told me and I googled it. Addyson, New York is a small town of about 1800 in the southern tier of New York State, my home state. Dr. Ron Hawkins was the professor who told the story. Today, he is the provost of the largest Christian University in the world, Liberty University, with over 60,000 students.
So here's my question: Do you think the guy who invited Ron to church, knew all God had for him in the future? And the next question is who is going to towns like Addyson to pastor a church today? Who among the faithful will go to the forgotten because it matters forever? To be sure we need ministry in the cities and the suburbs, but our land is also dotted with numerous communities no one knows about. There are no such things as small churches. Every church can have a global impact. That church in Addyson sure did.
I reflected personally on the situation as well. I grew up in one of those towns. I was born in Malone, New York, the county seat town of Franklin county on the northern border of New York. I grew up in a little town adjacent to Malone - Burke, New York. The population then was about 1300 people. I am so thankful that the Lord got the gospel to me in that place known by few, but known by Him.
Out of a desire to be good stewards of what the Lord has entrusted us with, the church I now serve, Northside Baptist Church in Liverpool, New York, began to reach out to pastors and leaders last year with our first of an annual conference we call 'Keep the Fire Burning'. We had hoped for at least 100 people from 50 churches. 200 people came from 82 churches from 7 states. Six of those were members of Higher Ground Baptist Church in Nottingham, New Hampshire.
Recently, I challenged our pastoral team to begin to plan a trip to a ministry somewhere here in the northeast to view up close and personal what God is doing in other places. I wanted us also to consider how we can best encourage pastors, leaders and churches. Just a few days ago, I drove the 371 miles to Nottingham, New Hampshire. I wanted to meet the people who had made a six and a half hour drive to stir the fires in their hearts. What I discovered humbled me, encouraged me, and taught me many things. I will share more on that next time.
It may be a little place called Nottingham, but God knows where it is. I can hardly wait to tell you about it. Stay tuned!
Friday, October 7, 2011
Surprises
Much of life is planned, yet much of life is unplanned. I suppose it is the difference between structure and spontaneity. I like to be spontaneous, but I have learned the importance of structure. Over the past week and a half I have had the privilege of living out a plan, with some surprises. One was painful - the other brought spontaneous joy.
I recently visited the Higher Ground Baptist Church in New Hampshire. I will write more on that in a future post. What a blessing it was to visit this wonderful fellowship. Six members came to our 'Keep the Fire Burning' conference last February. It was an honor and a blessing to join them in what God is doing in their midst. On the way there I got my first surprise. I received word that a long time friend was soon to die of cancer. We knew this dear woman of God was close to death, but somehow held out hope for healing to the end.
Marti Parker was a Proverbs 31 woman for sure. She and her husband Jerry have been friends of ours for over 30 years. I met them when I went to seminary and began to serve at the Faith Baptist Church of Atoka, Tennessee. I received the word of her likely soon passing from their son. They wanted me to come and preach the funeral service. Being involved in the service would certain be an honor.
I grieved for the family and for the loss both family and friends would feel. It would indeed be painful - but knowing none the less that we do not grieve as those who have no hope. Marti would soon be with the Lord. We would celebrate her life, celebrate her being in the presence of the Lord, but suffer the loss felt so strongly by her family and friends who are still here.
In the plan and providence of God, she passed away toward the end of the week. I finished my ministry in New Hampshire on Sunday and then flew out of Boston to preach at the funeral on Monday morning. I visited with Jerry and stayed until Tuesday seeking to encourage him and walk this road with him. Wednesday and Thursday were busy days back in Liverpool. A lot is going on at Northside, and it was good to be back home.
During a meeting in my office late yesterday afternoon with a friend, a man who just this year began attending Northside, there was a knock on my door. I looked up and through the window in the door saw my oldest daughter's face! That was my second surprise. I was blessed by a surprise visit from our oldest who now lives in the midwest. The last 24 hours have been sheer delight as our family has enjoyed three of our four children being home and enjoying one another's company.
We have shared about our lives, and talked about serving the Lord. We have enjoyed laughter and tears. (mostly laughter!) For me, keeping the fire burning often happens when I simply surrender to the Lord. Learn to simply walk with Him and trust Him always. He has a plan. We may make our plans, but the Lord is the master planner. With Him there are always surprises along the way. Some of those surprises are painful, and some are joyful. I've learned to see Him in them both. I pray you will as well.
I recently visited the Higher Ground Baptist Church in New Hampshire. I will write more on that in a future post. What a blessing it was to visit this wonderful fellowship. Six members came to our 'Keep the Fire Burning' conference last February. It was an honor and a blessing to join them in what God is doing in their midst. On the way there I got my first surprise. I received word that a long time friend was soon to die of cancer. We knew this dear woman of God was close to death, but somehow held out hope for healing to the end.
Marti Parker was a Proverbs 31 woman for sure. She and her husband Jerry have been friends of ours for over 30 years. I met them when I went to seminary and began to serve at the Faith Baptist Church of Atoka, Tennessee. I received the word of her likely soon passing from their son. They wanted me to come and preach the funeral service. Being involved in the service would certain be an honor.
I grieved for the family and for the loss both family and friends would feel. It would indeed be painful - but knowing none the less that we do not grieve as those who have no hope. Marti would soon be with the Lord. We would celebrate her life, celebrate her being in the presence of the Lord, but suffer the loss felt so strongly by her family and friends who are still here.
In the plan and providence of God, she passed away toward the end of the week. I finished my ministry in New Hampshire on Sunday and then flew out of Boston to preach at the funeral on Monday morning. I visited with Jerry and stayed until Tuesday seeking to encourage him and walk this road with him. Wednesday and Thursday were busy days back in Liverpool. A lot is going on at Northside, and it was good to be back home.
During a meeting in my office late yesterday afternoon with a friend, a man who just this year began attending Northside, there was a knock on my door. I looked up and through the window in the door saw my oldest daughter's face! That was my second surprise. I was blessed by a surprise visit from our oldest who now lives in the midwest. The last 24 hours have been sheer delight as our family has enjoyed three of our four children being home and enjoying one another's company.
We have shared about our lives, and talked about serving the Lord. We have enjoyed laughter and tears. (mostly laughter!) For me, keeping the fire burning often happens when I simply surrender to the Lord. Learn to simply walk with Him and trust Him always. He has a plan. We may make our plans, but the Lord is the master planner. With Him there are always surprises along the way. Some of those surprises are painful, and some are joyful. I've learned to see Him in them both. I pray you will as well.
Thursday, September 15, 2011
Courageous
In a few days, the movie Courageous will be released. I have had the privilege of viewing it at two different screenings earlier this year. It is the fourth movie produced by Sherwood Pictures. I've seen them all and been blessed by them all. Flywheel, Facing the Giants, and Fireproof all impacted my life. Courageous is outstanding.
I want to encourage you to go on the weekend it is released to a theater near you and spread the word! September 30-October 2 is opening weekend. There is a profound message for individuals, families, and especially Dads. Your life, your family, your church and your community could be transformed by the power of God through the impact of this film.
If we ever needed courage, we need it in our day. I'm reminded of two of my favorite verses in Joshua. "This book of instruction must not depart from your mouth; you are to recite it day and night, so that you may carefully observe everything written in it. For then you will prosper and succeed in whatever you do. Haven't I commanded you: be strong and courageous? Do not be afraid or discouraged, for the LORD your God is with you wherever you go." Joshua 1:8-9
We need godly wisdom, and instruction. Praise God for His word which is all of that! We need strength and courage. The Lord will grant it to His people. So how do you keep the fire burning? Be courageous.
prayerfully,
Bruce
I want to encourage you to go on the weekend it is released to a theater near you and spread the word! September 30-October 2 is opening weekend. There is a profound message for individuals, families, and especially Dads. Your life, your family, your church and your community could be transformed by the power of God through the impact of this film.
If we ever needed courage, we need it in our day. I'm reminded of two of my favorite verses in Joshua. "This book of instruction must not depart from your mouth; you are to recite it day and night, so that you may carefully observe everything written in it. For then you will prosper and succeed in whatever you do. Haven't I commanded you: be strong and courageous? Do not be afraid or discouraged, for the LORD your God is with you wherever you go." Joshua 1:8-9
We need godly wisdom, and instruction. Praise God for His word which is all of that! We need strength and courage. The Lord will grant it to His people. So how do you keep the fire burning? Be courageous.
prayerfully,
Bruce
Thursday, September 8, 2011
Remember!
Kathy and I are blessed to still have family living close by. Three of our four parents are alive and frankly doing quite well. We were blessed to visit them this past Sunday night and Monday over the Labor Day holiday. To be sure, they are aging, but they have remarkable strength and wisdom. It is a blessing for us to visit them, and our youngest daughter certainly loves to see her grandparents as well.
While we were in Northern New York, as usual, it is a time for me of remembering who I am and where I came from. I think that is important. We moved to the house where my mother still lives when I was 15. There are many memories there and many more in the surrounding areas. I drove by the church in Brushton where I served as pastor for six years prior to coming to Northside. I drove by the house that had been our home during that time, and where we brought David home as a baby and Charity home as a baby (#2, and #3 in our family).
Today, I realized I have lived as long in Liverpool as birth to graduation from high school. Wow. That is mind-boggling for me. But there are always important moments where to keep the fire burning, you have to remember where it began, and where it continued. It was up in that north country, where I first gave my heart to Jesus. It was there my faith and life was rooted, grounded, and grew. I witnessed it in my Dad, and still see it in my Mom, my in-laws, and extended family and friends.
There is a scene in the movie Mighty Ducks where the coach talks to the players on the hockey team about where they came from. One by one the players say their name and where they are from. It had meaning for them. It reminds them of where they came from, and how they got to where they are. So, for me, I’m Bruce Aubrey, from Burke, New York. It’s who I am, and it’s where I’m from. However, it’s even more important to remember who you are in Christ. Bruce Aubrey, child of God. I could never be more grateful for anything than that. Thank you, Jesus! Remember!
Wednesday, August 31, 2011
Resurrection Hope When Life Falls Apart
I experienced something this week, I've never experienced before. A member of our staff died. She went to be with Jesus. Just a few short months ago, one of our administrative assistants at church went to the doctor, and discovered she had a brain tumor. For the next few months she fought a valiant battle with cancer. Her world, and her family's world was turned upside down. Our staff is still numb from it all. She never saw this coming. Nor did her family. Nor did we. My wife and I first met this couple in a small group almost four years ago. They were a middle aged couple with a great life and a great future.
Early this week, this wonderful servant of the Lord went to be with Jesus. We rejoice in what she is now experiencing, but our hearts ache for her husband and three grown sons. In addition, our team has suffered loss, and our church will miss her greatly. As you read this, pray that God's grace and love will be poured out on this family.
Tomorrow I will lead the celebration service for her life. It will be profoundly painful for her family and friends, and our church will never quite be the same. In the midst of it all we have resurrection hope. We are not as those who have no hope. In fact, our hope is steadfast and sure! (See Hebrews 6:19-20).
How do you keep the fire burning when your world is falling apart? Cling to the one who never changes. Cling to Jesus. And when your grip grows weak and you are not sure you can even face another day, remember he is the one holding on to you. 'For He Himself has said, I will never leave you or forsake you.' Hebrews 13:5b. So hold on to His word. Trust His heart. He is there.
I leave you with Isaiah 41:10, which has long been one of my favorite verse. 'Do not fear, for I am with you; do not be afraid, for I am your God. I will strengthen you; I will help you; I will hold on to you with My righteous right hand.'
Early this week, this wonderful servant of the Lord went to be with Jesus. We rejoice in what she is now experiencing, but our hearts ache for her husband and three grown sons. In addition, our team has suffered loss, and our church will miss her greatly. As you read this, pray that God's grace and love will be poured out on this family.
Tomorrow I will lead the celebration service for her life. It will be profoundly painful for her family and friends, and our church will never quite be the same. In the midst of it all we have resurrection hope. We are not as those who have no hope. In fact, our hope is steadfast and sure! (See Hebrews 6:19-20).
How do you keep the fire burning when your world is falling apart? Cling to the one who never changes. Cling to Jesus. And when your grip grows weak and you are not sure you can even face another day, remember he is the one holding on to you. 'For He Himself has said, I will never leave you or forsake you.' Hebrews 13:5b. So hold on to His word. Trust His heart. He is there.
I leave you with Isaiah 41:10, which has long been one of my favorite verse. 'Do not fear, for I am with you; do not be afraid, for I am your God. I will strengthen you; I will help you; I will hold on to you with My righteous right hand.'
Wednesday, August 24, 2011
A Shelter in the Storm
I have spent time with many people lately who seem to be going through a storm. The truth is we all are either in one, coming out of one, or headed into one. God's promise is this: "I will be with you when you pass through the waters, and when you pass through the rivers, they will not overwhelm you. You will not be scorched when you walk through the fire, and the flame will not burn you." Isaiah 43:2.
I am so thankful for the word of God. We are constantly reminded of His presence and power in us and around us. Psalm 119:114 says "You are my shelter and my shield; I put my hope in Your word." In the past week I've been with people going through all types of struggles. I have been reminded that Jesus is the shelter in the storm.
Whatever storm you are facing or going through, do not abandon the Lord. He is with you in the storm. He will never abandon you. He will walk you through the storm. He will be glorified. He cares for you. Trust Him. Completely. The storm will pass. Another one will come. He remains the same.
prayerfully,
Bruce
I am so thankful for the word of God. We are constantly reminded of His presence and power in us and around us. Psalm 119:114 says "You are my shelter and my shield; I put my hope in Your word." In the past week I've been with people going through all types of struggles. I have been reminded that Jesus is the shelter in the storm.
Whatever storm you are facing or going through, do not abandon the Lord. He is with you in the storm. He will never abandon you. He will walk you through the storm. He will be glorified. He cares for you. Trust Him. Completely. The storm will pass. Another one will come. He remains the same.
prayerfully,
Bruce
Tuesday, August 16, 2011
Vacation!
When it comes to keeping the fire burning, we all need rest. The Bible tells us in Mark 6:31, ‘He said to them, “Come away by yourselves to a remote place and rest a while.” For many people were coming and going, and they did not even have time to eat.’ It has been said that the person who burns the candle at both ends is not as smart as he thinks he is. It seems that in this world people either tend to be workaholics or lazy. Few find the appropriate balance of a healthy life. I can even recall those who would say, ‘I would rather burn out than rust out!’ The problem with that is that either way – you are out!
I’ve preached a lot of funerals in my life and ministry. I’ve watched families gather and mourn not only the loss of a loved one but sometimes also audibly reflect on the fact that it is too bad it takes a death to get families together. That has made an impact on me. I have found myself encouraging families not to wait until funerals to gather together. Make memories now. Cherish the present and give thanks for all God has done and is doing.
Recently, I experienced the joy of our entire family gathering for vacation. We are in that in-between stage. The oldest of our children is married. In fact the oldest two are out of college and both getting on with their lives. The third will be a senior in college and we have one in middle school. Our four children and our son-in-law are a huge blessing from the Lord. For years we have been gathering at an island in North Carolina for vacation. It’s been every year since 1995. As the kids got older, there were times that one or the other could not join us.
This year we made an effort to all be there and the reward was amazing. I’m so thankful for a family that loves the Lord and loves each other. We are each different, but all very much the same. We help each other be stronger. We learn from each other. We listen to each other. We grow together. Whether it was time at the beach, time together around a meal, time of worship at the chapel, time at the golf course, watching a movie, or putting a puzzle together, moments and conversations were shared that will last yet another year. At times it was a walk together with a family member, or a bike ride. I cherished every minute.
So here’s the deal. We need to be diligent in our life, ministry and our work. We also need to know how to gather for times of renewal, refreshing and rest. If you don’t the fire will go out and you will need a restart which isn’t always easy. Don’t lose hope. Make some plans now for 2012. It will be here sooner than you know it. A close friend of mine asked me about vacation as soon as we got back. He then asked me, so what are your plans for your next vacation? That’s what good friends do. They remind you to get on the calendar, next year’s plan. Ours is already on the calendar. I encourage you to do the same.
Next year we will have yet another family member with us, our first grandchild! That baby was with us this year – we just haven’t met the child yet!!! The journey continues. It’s a good journey, and I am grateful.
Prayerfully,
Bruce
Saturday, July 30, 2011
When the kids come home
I've been in ministry for 34 years. As a 19 year old, I took my first church position as a summer youth director at a local church, and and also working with a local Baptist Association reaching out to a town to start a Bible Study that would one day lead to a church plant. Those roots go back to the Emmanuel Baptist Church in Potsdam, and the Calvary Baptist Church in Canton, New York. I would go back to Roberts Wesleyan College that fall as a sophomore and be called to serve as youth director of the Penfield Wesleyan Church. I was privileged to serve there for three years.
Then it was on to seminary and a new place of service. I was called as Associate Pastor for youth and children's work at the Faith Baptist Church in Atoka, Tennessee. I held that position for four years and then was called to be their pastor. All in all I served almost 7 years in that church. Then I was called to return to my roots. I became the pastor of First Christian Church (SBC), Brushton, NY. I served there six years. In 1993 we moved to Northside, and I've been serving here 18 years. That's my 'career' so far. As much as I love it and as important as it has been to me and my family, there is another story I want to tell.
Our first child, a daughter, was born in Memphis, Tennessee. I was in my sixth year in that church. I still remember her birth and the joy she brought then to our hearts and still does today. When we moved to New York, my wife was pregnant with our second child. That first year, our son was born in the same hospital that Kathy and I had been born in years before. Three years later we had another daughter, and she too was born in that hospital. The kids brought us great joy then and still do today.
In 1993, we moved to the Syracuse area to accept a new ministry and a new opportunity. We had an 8 year old, a five year old, and a two year old. Today they are 26, 23, and 20. It seems like that blink of an eye. Since arriving here, we discovered we were having another child, only to go through the great pain and difficulty of a miscarriage. A few years later God gave us another another child, a daughter, and she is soon to enter middle school. In the blink of an eye, one has married, two are out of college, the third will be a senior in college, and the fourth is not too far from the teen years.
This weekend, the oldest came home with her husband. I love when the kids come home. Oh, I know they are not kids - but they are such a blessing to us. They will always be my kids - and I mean no disrespect by that. They are beautiful ladies and a fine young man. Why am I writing this? Because the theme of this blog is, 'Keep the Fire Burning'. My family is a key for me to keep the fire burning. They know me best, yet love me most. I can't imagine my life without them.
Most of all, I am grateful for my wife, and their mother. She has poured her life into them, and I see it nearly every day. I love her for that and so many other reasons. Ministry is busy. Ministry is a blessing. Ministry can be brutal. Whatever the case, remember this - there's no one like your family. Don't make them idols, and don't neglect them. Just love them. You will never regret that - and it will keep the fire burning!
Ironically, this blog started as a result of a book I was reading for a doctoral seminar. I started reading it on vacation last April, on my oldest daughter and her husbands back patio. The seeds for this outreach and ministry were planted last spring. Now they are visiting us and the blog is a reality. One more step in sharing my life, family and ministry for the glory of God.
Soon the movie Courageous will come out. I have seen it twice at pastor's special screenings. I was asked this week what two takeaways stick out in my mind for me personally from this film. I would say this: cherish every day, and never underestimate your influence as a father. Pray for the release of that film and it's impact globally. Enjoy your kids while they are home, and look forward to the times when they come home as they grow older. It will help you keep the fire burning!
grateful,
Bruce
Then it was on to seminary and a new place of service. I was called as Associate Pastor for youth and children's work at the Faith Baptist Church in Atoka, Tennessee. I held that position for four years and then was called to be their pastor. All in all I served almost 7 years in that church. Then I was called to return to my roots. I became the pastor of First Christian Church (SBC), Brushton, NY. I served there six years. In 1993 we moved to Northside, and I've been serving here 18 years. That's my 'career' so far. As much as I love it and as important as it has been to me and my family, there is another story I want to tell.
Our first child, a daughter, was born in Memphis, Tennessee. I was in my sixth year in that church. I still remember her birth and the joy she brought then to our hearts and still does today. When we moved to New York, my wife was pregnant with our second child. That first year, our son was born in the same hospital that Kathy and I had been born in years before. Three years later we had another daughter, and she too was born in that hospital. The kids brought us great joy then and still do today.
In 1993, we moved to the Syracuse area to accept a new ministry and a new opportunity. We had an 8 year old, a five year old, and a two year old. Today they are 26, 23, and 20. It seems like that blink of an eye. Since arriving here, we discovered we were having another child, only to go through the great pain and difficulty of a miscarriage. A few years later God gave us another another child, a daughter, and she is soon to enter middle school. In the blink of an eye, one has married, two are out of college, the third will be a senior in college, and the fourth is not too far from the teen years.
This weekend, the oldest came home with her husband. I love when the kids come home. Oh, I know they are not kids - but they are such a blessing to us. They will always be my kids - and I mean no disrespect by that. They are beautiful ladies and a fine young man. Why am I writing this? Because the theme of this blog is, 'Keep the Fire Burning'. My family is a key for me to keep the fire burning. They know me best, yet love me most. I can't imagine my life without them.
Most of all, I am grateful for my wife, and their mother. She has poured her life into them, and I see it nearly every day. I love her for that and so many other reasons. Ministry is busy. Ministry is a blessing. Ministry can be brutal. Whatever the case, remember this - there's no one like your family. Don't make them idols, and don't neglect them. Just love them. You will never regret that - and it will keep the fire burning!
Ironically, this blog started as a result of a book I was reading for a doctoral seminar. I started reading it on vacation last April, on my oldest daughter and her husbands back patio. The seeds for this outreach and ministry were planted last spring. Now they are visiting us and the blog is a reality. One more step in sharing my life, family and ministry for the glory of God.
Soon the movie Courageous will come out. I have seen it twice at pastor's special screenings. I was asked this week what two takeaways stick out in my mind for me personally from this film. I would say this: cherish every day, and never underestimate your influence as a father. Pray for the release of that film and it's impact globally. Enjoy your kids while they are home, and look forward to the times when they come home as they grow older. It will help you keep the fire burning!
grateful,
Bruce
Tuesday, July 26, 2011
Staying Healthy
I like sausage biscuits. I’m a northern boy, but seven years in Tennessee taught me some things! I can still remember driving my wife to catch her ride with another lady who taught school at the same school where Kathy taught. I would go inside that gas station/corner store in rural Tennessee and buy a sausage biscuit and the Memphis paper. I would head to the church where I was on staff and having devoured my biscuit on the ride to the office, would then open the paper and begin my day.
When I to this community, the church where I serve was right next to a McDonald’s restaurant. I can’t begin to tell you how many days I left home without feeling hungry at all, only to have the STRONG urge for a sausage biscuit! Since then, McDonald’s has moved, but I still know where two of them are! Now I’m not a huge fan of McDonald’s, but I do like breakfast there on the go. Through the years it is not uncommon to drop off one of my own family for praise team practice and then head to McDonald’s to grab breakfast to go for both of us.
As I’m getting older, I find myself asking more and more questions about health. You might say it’s too little, too late – but I would say, I’ve cared for much of my life – though at times not enough! For whatever reason, this past Sunday I decided to check calories and fat content on foods at McDonalds. Now that was informational! I discovered that there are something like 430 calories in a sausage biscuit – and a lot of it is fat calories. The egg mcmuffin has just 300 calories and much less fat. But, here is the problem. I don’t like egg mcmuffins nearly as much as sausage biscuits.
Ironically, I had already been to the gym for my Sunday morning routine. I know how much it takes to burn 300 calories, much less 430. For some reason, my mind went to the Bible and this verse: ‘My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge’. (Hosea 4:6) It’s true that I was preparing to preach the word of God in two services that morning. I wanted to share the word and help God’s people know His word more clearly. The Lord’s rebuke had to do with their rejection of him (recorded in Hosea) – but as Dr. Adrian Roger’s used to say – there is only one proper interpretation of Scripture and that is the one the Holy Spirit meant when it was written. But – there are a thousand applications.
As I reflected on the verse from Hosea – the Lord reminded me of this application. I thought how my lack of knowledge on the nutrition of my breakfast choices was not allowing me to make the wisest decisions for my health. Now you can argue and I would agree, that there are far healthier options. I will be pursuing those as well. To keep the fire burning, you have to stay healthy. That involves, diet, exercise, sleep, emotional health, intellect and a host of other issues. Most of all we need to be spiritually healthy. But don’t bypass the simple things. As for me? I saved the 130 calories and the fat content and made the bold move – I had the egg mcmuffin.
Bruce
Thursday, July 21, 2011
The Heart of God
Perhaps the most famous Bible Verse is John 3:16. 'For God loved the world in this way: He gave His One and ONly Son, so that everyone who believes in Him will not perish but have eternal life.' This verse reminds us of the greatest gift ever given! I believe this verse declares the heart of God.
When we consider this verse we see that the source of the gift is God. The strength of the gift is that it is given out of love. The scope of the gift is the whole world! God has expressed His love to the whole world in the sending of His Son. Next we notice it is a sacrificial gift. God gave His Son - His only Son. What a sacrifice! He died for us! Lastly, it is a salvation gift. The greatest gift ever given is the gift of eternal life provided by the Lord Himself in His substitutionary atonement on our behalf. All who trust in Him are saved forever. Glory Hallelujah! His resurrection was the final expression of how he broke the chains of death, sin and the grave.
God has a huge heart - a heart for the whole world. Our privilege as His children is to take this glorious gospel to the ends of the earth as He commanded. This week, at Northside we have 35 people in Puerto Rico rebuilding two homes and ministering to 150 children in Vacation Bible School. Recently a team went to Bulgaria, another team went to Guatemala, one member went to the Ukraine. We have a member serving in Paraguay. This fall, our missions pastor will take a small team on an exploratory trip to East Asia. Within just a few days a group of 40 adults and youth will minister at a wonderful retreat center. They will minister at a children's camp and work on the property and facilities as well.
When you care about the things that God cares about, you will find it keeps the fire burning. For me, going on mission with the Lord to the whole world is just another way of making sure I'm in step with God's agenda and not simply asking Him to join mine. The difference is known in attitude, gratitude and fruit.
If you want to know the heart of God, love the world like He does. Start from where you are and consider going to the ends of the earth as He directs, short term or long term. It will keep the fire burning. Whether that trip is across the street, a few minutes down the road, an hour away, a few hours, or across the globe, it's a trip worth taking!
For the sake of souls and the glory of God!
Bruce
When we consider this verse we see that the source of the gift is God. The strength of the gift is that it is given out of love. The scope of the gift is the whole world! God has expressed His love to the whole world in the sending of His Son. Next we notice it is a sacrificial gift. God gave His Son - His only Son. What a sacrifice! He died for us! Lastly, it is a salvation gift. The greatest gift ever given is the gift of eternal life provided by the Lord Himself in His substitutionary atonement on our behalf. All who trust in Him are saved forever. Glory Hallelujah! His resurrection was the final expression of how he broke the chains of death, sin and the grave.
God has a huge heart - a heart for the whole world. Our privilege as His children is to take this glorious gospel to the ends of the earth as He commanded. This week, at Northside we have 35 people in Puerto Rico rebuilding two homes and ministering to 150 children in Vacation Bible School. Recently a team went to Bulgaria, another team went to Guatemala, one member went to the Ukraine. We have a member serving in Paraguay. This fall, our missions pastor will take a small team on an exploratory trip to East Asia. Within just a few days a group of 40 adults and youth will minister at a wonderful retreat center. They will minister at a children's camp and work on the property and facilities as well.
When you care about the things that God cares about, you will find it keeps the fire burning. For me, going on mission with the Lord to the whole world is just another way of making sure I'm in step with God's agenda and not simply asking Him to join mine. The difference is known in attitude, gratitude and fruit.
If you want to know the heart of God, love the world like He does. Start from where you are and consider going to the ends of the earth as He directs, short term or long term. It will keep the fire burning. Whether that trip is across the street, a few minutes down the road, an hour away, a few hours, or across the globe, it's a trip worth taking!
For the sake of souls and the glory of God!
Bruce
Monday, July 18, 2011
Discipleship Is Not An Option
Jesus said, ‘If anyone wants to come with Me, he must deny himself, take up his cross daily, and follow Me.’ (Luke 9:23, Holman Christian Standard Bible). Discipleship is a word that can become a buzzword some latch on to and others ignore or give less attention. Frankly, I was reminded again this week, discipleship is not an option.
Discipleship is the process of growing in your faith. Remembering my own spiritual journey led me down memory lane. I recall now the faithfulness of a Methodist pastor who encouraged me and taught our weekly mid-week Bible Study, when I first came to know Jesus.
I’m reminded of the gift of a subscription to a Christian magazine, from a friend of my mother. With that magazine subscription, I also received a copy of the Living Bible New Testament. The word of God fueled the fire in my heart. The magazine articles were like a fresh breeze on the fire. God used it all to encourage me in my early walk.
In addition, somewhere around 1974, I purchased for a few dollars, The Navigators Topical Memory System. I learned the important lesson early that discipleship involves hiding God’s word in our hearts. While I struggle to remember things that happened three years ago, I remember those verses memorized in my teen years with amazing accuracy.
I would work on two verses a week. Each week had a theme. The Bible is the Word of God – 2 Timothy 3:16-17; Joshua 1:8. Another week was on the Christian Life – 2 Corinthians 5:17; Galatians 2:20. Also, I memorized Luke 9:23. I learned that the Christian life is not about me – it’s all about Jesus. I am crucified with Christ – but more alive than ever before. Now, I must deny myself, (my old nature that likes to have it my way), and take up my cross – daily – and follow Jesus. What a privilege.
To keep the fire burning, you must memorize the word of God. If these verses are new to you, I just listed six that will get you started. Go for it. Memorize two per week. That’s 104 in a year. Repeat the new verses you are working on seven times, each day, for a week. Then review them once daily from then on out. And remember – discipleship is not an option!
Refocused to hide God’s word in my heart,
Bruce
Monday, July 11, 2011
Remember Who You Are
Remember Who You Are
This has been an intense week. My mother-in-law had a heart attack. We’ve learned again the importance of family and even more so the value of faith. I’m grateful that she is doing well and we are hopeful for good days ahead. Though we will return soon to be with her in the hospital nearly five hours away, we have come home for a brief respite and some rest.
On the way home, we traveled through the little town of Burke and passed by the cemetery where my father is buried. Kathy and I stopped. I have often visited the grave of my father. I know he is not there. Praise God, he is with the Lord. His body was buried there. I go to honor his name, respect his memory, and frankly to remember who I am.
Today, I sat down on the ground in front of the grave. I stared at the tombstone. It says, ‘Jesus Saves’. I like that. I noticed that there was a hyphen between two numbers. 1920-1979. My first thought was ‘that was too short a life’. To be certain, plenty of people have lived a shorter life, but I’d be lying if I didn’t tell you it seems short to me. Life is the dash between two dates, and how ever many years it is, it is a blink in light of forever.
You may say, ‘Ok, Bruce, so what’s the story?’ I go to remind myself who I am. I remembered again today that I am the son of a man who loved his wife and was faithful to her. I’m the son of a man who loved his kids and was very good to us. I’m the son of a man who believed the Bible, and was a man of prayer. I’m the son of a man who loved the local church and respected the office of pastor. I’m the son of a man who was a hard worker and lived an honest and respected life. I want to be like him.
The other name on the tombstone is my mother’s. I clearly recognized today there is no end date on her side of the stone. She’s still living. I talk to her regularly, but don’t visit her nearly enough. I was made aware again today. She is still alive. My father-in-law and mother-in-law are still alive. Having been with my in-laws earlier in the day, we also visited my Mom, after leaving the cemetery. She was so glad to see us.
For me, to keep the fire burning, I remember the past. I remember who I am. And I want more than ever to embrace the present and cherish every day. I don’t know the future. God does. That’s enough for me. I trust Him. Oh, and by the way, if you are saved, you should really remember who you are: child of God, redeemed, forgiven, assured of heaven, and you have a Savior who died for you to have an abundant life. Embrace that. Remember who you are.
Oh and by the way – when I leave my father’s grave, I now find myself saying in a whisper – though I know he is not there – ‘I will see you again!’ It’s the reminder to me of the hope we have in Jesus Christ. That keeps the fire burning in my heart!
For the glory of God, and the sake of souls,
Wednesday, July 6, 2011
Faith, Family, and Friends
This weekend we celebrated the 235th anniversary of our nation, the United States of America. For us, it is becoming a time to go and celebrate with our son and the church where he serves. Dave is worship and youth pastor at First Southern Baptist Church, in Dover, Delaware. Each year for the past five years or so, they host a block party type event right on their church property called 'Son Jam' on July 4th. There is free food, games for the kids, and music. We've been a couple of times.
This year I had the privilege of playing and singing in the band for the event. I told my son he was scraping the bottom of the barrel to ask his Dad to play! Actually, it was an honor, and a blast! After preaching three services (one Saturday night and two Sunday morning) at Northside, my wife and I and our two youngest daughters headed to Dover. We arrived a little before 7pm. It was great to see our son again. Then it was time to rehearse! An hour and a half and about 9 songs later, we settled in for some late night burgers and chicken around an RV some new friends brought in as a blessing for some quiet and cool in the midst of the busyness.
Monday morning, we rehearsed again most of the morning. Then we took everything out of the church and moved it to the platform out in the field on the property. That transition took some time and diligence! Then we did the soundcheck outdoors, ran about a dozen songs again and then took our final break. When 5:30 came, people were lining up for dinner and all the festivities, which would conclude with a great view of the fireworks over downtown Dover from the church lot. For me, I was about to do something I love - play and sing music - with people I love - new friends, and old ones - and sing between my son and one of my daughters. Now that's about as good as it gets!
We played three sets of music, and I had the privilege of sharing the gospel in a ten minute presentation midway through the night at the pastor's request. Only eternity will tell what a night like that accomplished - but I believe the Lord was doing a lot. More than 1600 people came, enjoyed food, time with friends, and family. In the midst of it all they were challenged in their faith as well through music and the word. It was a WONDERFUL night.
At one point I thought - I wish this night would never end. That's when you know it's going well! I also respect and admire the faith and outreach of Pastor Jeff Osgood and the church he leads under the Lord's leadership there in Dover. This congregation of between 300-400 reached out powerfully, generously and selflessly to their community with bold faith.
Faith, Family and Friends. When you break it all down - well that's as good as it gets. Without Jesus, my life would be a total mess and without hope. Without my family, I don't know where I would be. They know me best and love me most. I thank God for them. And friends? Well - I have old ones and new ones and many somewhere in between - but this weekend I learned again they are a blessing from the Lord. It makes me want to be a better friend to others. I'm so grateful Jesus is the friend of sinners!
To keep the fire burning, you will need faith, family and friends. Invest in all three. You will be glad you did!
This year I had the privilege of playing and singing in the band for the event. I told my son he was scraping the bottom of the barrel to ask his Dad to play! Actually, it was an honor, and a blast! After preaching three services (one Saturday night and two Sunday morning) at Northside, my wife and I and our two youngest daughters headed to Dover. We arrived a little before 7pm. It was great to see our son again. Then it was time to rehearse! An hour and a half and about 9 songs later, we settled in for some late night burgers and chicken around an RV some new friends brought in as a blessing for some quiet and cool in the midst of the busyness.
Monday morning, we rehearsed again most of the morning. Then we took everything out of the church and moved it to the platform out in the field on the property. That transition took some time and diligence! Then we did the soundcheck outdoors, ran about a dozen songs again and then took our final break. When 5:30 came, people were lining up for dinner and all the festivities, which would conclude with a great view of the fireworks over downtown Dover from the church lot. For me, I was about to do something I love - play and sing music - with people I love - new friends, and old ones - and sing between my son and one of my daughters. Now that's about as good as it gets!
We played three sets of music, and I had the privilege of sharing the gospel in a ten minute presentation midway through the night at the pastor's request. Only eternity will tell what a night like that accomplished - but I believe the Lord was doing a lot. More than 1600 people came, enjoyed food, time with friends, and family. In the midst of it all they were challenged in their faith as well through music and the word. It was a WONDERFUL night.
At one point I thought - I wish this night would never end. That's when you know it's going well! I also respect and admire the faith and outreach of Pastor Jeff Osgood and the church he leads under the Lord's leadership there in Dover. This congregation of between 300-400 reached out powerfully, generously and selflessly to their community with bold faith.
Faith, Family and Friends. When you break it all down - well that's as good as it gets. Without Jesus, my life would be a total mess and without hope. Without my family, I don't know where I would be. They know me best and love me most. I thank God for them. And friends? Well - I have old ones and new ones and many somewhere in between - but this weekend I learned again they are a blessing from the Lord. It makes me want to be a better friend to others. I'm so grateful Jesus is the friend of sinners!
To keep the fire burning, you will need faith, family and friends. Invest in all three. You will be glad you did!
Friday, July 1, 2011
For the next generation
Today is my day off. So you might say - Bruce what are you doing writing a post for your blog? Good question. Short answer? I have a propensity toward being a workaholic. But I'm not sure that is the problem today. I've been a bit sick or I might be on the golf course! Actually, there is another reason. This week is Vacation Bible School and Youth Zoom (grades 6-8) at Northside. We have a great staff and wonderful volunteer leaders and helpers. I'm so grateful.
To be honest, I could have not showed up today, and not taken any flack for that. Most people know that this is my weekend (Thursday night through Saturday afternoon). Then I will preach three services - one Saturday night and two Sunday morning. To preach is to die a little. It takes something out of you. But what a privilege. I definitely need to refuel to keep the fire burning. I want to be an instrument in the Carpenter's hands to inspire others to know Him!
I decided however that I would go by the church and just be incarnational. That's what Jesus did. Be among the people. To be sure - there were times he withdrew to a solitary place - and we all need to learn that lesson as well. It was my joy to speak with a number of people, greeting and encouraging them I pray. What happened next was the joy of my morning. I saw some of the youth zoom kids playing nerf baseball. Well they were pitching and hitting.
When I was a kid growing up, I loved to ride my bike to my Grandma's house and get some pick up ball going with the neighbor kids. I loved baseball. This morning I said, - 'Hey, I want to pitch!' For the next 15 minutes, I got to pitch and play some baseball with a great bunch of middle school youth. Later on our leader gave me one of the bracelets being passed out for this group. Our middle school ministry is now called 'Ignite'. I grabbed the bracelet and put it on. What it says sort of stunned me - in a good way - it says - 'Ignite the Fire Inside'. WOW.
This keep the fire burning thing is not just for our generation but for future generations! Before going to Bible School I had breakfast with a man who is a member of our church. We talked about our families and encouraged each other in the Lord. I reminded him and myself that as important as the church is, it all starts at home.
So let's keep the fire burning for yet another generation! I'm confident they will ignite the fire inside - and if we are not careful will outrun us! In one way that would be great - and in another - a sad commentary to my generation. We need to keep blazing the trail for them!!!
I leave you with this challenge from the word of God. 'He established a testimony in Jacob and set up a law in Israel, which He commanded our fathers to teach to their children so that a future generation - children yet to be born - might know. They were to rise and tell their children so that they might put their confidence in God and not forget God's works, but keep His commandments.' Psalm 78:5-7, HCSB.
So - let's keep the fire burning for the sake of this generation and the next!!!
To be honest, I could have not showed up today, and not taken any flack for that. Most people know that this is my weekend (Thursday night through Saturday afternoon). Then I will preach three services - one Saturday night and two Sunday morning. To preach is to die a little. It takes something out of you. But what a privilege. I definitely need to refuel to keep the fire burning. I want to be an instrument in the Carpenter's hands to inspire others to know Him!
I decided however that I would go by the church and just be incarnational. That's what Jesus did. Be among the people. To be sure - there were times he withdrew to a solitary place - and we all need to learn that lesson as well. It was my joy to speak with a number of people, greeting and encouraging them I pray. What happened next was the joy of my morning. I saw some of the youth zoom kids playing nerf baseball. Well they were pitching and hitting.
When I was a kid growing up, I loved to ride my bike to my Grandma's house and get some pick up ball going with the neighbor kids. I loved baseball. This morning I said, - 'Hey, I want to pitch!' For the next 15 minutes, I got to pitch and play some baseball with a great bunch of middle school youth. Later on our leader gave me one of the bracelets being passed out for this group. Our middle school ministry is now called 'Ignite'. I grabbed the bracelet and put it on. What it says sort of stunned me - in a good way - it says - 'Ignite the Fire Inside'. WOW.
This keep the fire burning thing is not just for our generation but for future generations! Before going to Bible School I had breakfast with a man who is a member of our church. We talked about our families and encouraged each other in the Lord. I reminded him and myself that as important as the church is, it all starts at home.
So let's keep the fire burning for yet another generation! I'm confident they will ignite the fire inside - and if we are not careful will outrun us! In one way that would be great - and in another - a sad commentary to my generation. We need to keep blazing the trail for them!!!
I leave you with this challenge from the word of God. 'He established a testimony in Jacob and set up a law in Israel, which He commanded our fathers to teach to their children so that a future generation - children yet to be born - might know. They were to rise and tell their children so that they might put their confidence in God and not forget God's works, but keep His commandments.' Psalm 78:5-7, HCSB.
So - let's keep the fire burning for the sake of this generation and the next!!!
Thursday, June 30, 2011
In Your Heart
The Christian life is a daily walk. There's just no getting around it. You are never on cruise control. It's forward or reverse. That's it. It all starts in the heart. Proverbs 4:23 says, 'Guard your heart above all else, for it is the source of life.'
So how do you keep your heart healthy? For me, I don't have a prayer unless I stay in the word, stay in prayer, and spend time exercising. Ministry life can be rather sedentary in physical activity, and it is important for me to get to the gym and go through the discipline of exercise. To be sure, exercise can be over-rated, but I think of it as 'temple maintenance'. Our body is the temple of the Lord and we have a stewardship responsibility there as well as other areas of our lives.
There are some other simple things that are important for me. I recharge on the golf course. I know that sounds silly, but it's real. For years I felt guilty about that. I don't feel so guilty about it anymore. Golf gets me outdoors. It reminds me of being in the fields as a boy on the farm - outdoors in the wide open spaces. I love the challenge. Every day is different. The conditions are different. The weather is different. The courses are different. And I enjoy time with friends.
Now golf may not do it for you, but you need to know what recharges your battery and schedule it regularly. Now back to the word. I've been a Christian for 38 years, and I have been on someone's church staff since 1977. That's 34 years. That doesn't make me an expert, but I do have some tread wear on my tires. I simply want to say this: do not forget the word of God. Romans 10:17 reminds us that faith comes by hearing and hearing by the word of God.
One more thing - don't forget your family. For me time with my family helps me keep the fire burning. They know me best, yet love me most. They encourage me, challenge me, sometimes rebuke me, always love me, and are by far my greatest cheerleaders. I love them dearly. Don't isolate your family. Walk this journey together. Serve the Lord with gladness.
So - guard your heart. Don't neglect your own body, soul or spirit. Stay in the word. Find out what activities add fuel to the fire, and enjoy the journey with your family. That's all for now!
So how do you keep your heart healthy? For me, I don't have a prayer unless I stay in the word, stay in prayer, and spend time exercising. Ministry life can be rather sedentary in physical activity, and it is important for me to get to the gym and go through the discipline of exercise. To be sure, exercise can be over-rated, but I think of it as 'temple maintenance'. Our body is the temple of the Lord and we have a stewardship responsibility there as well as other areas of our lives.
There are some other simple things that are important for me. I recharge on the golf course. I know that sounds silly, but it's real. For years I felt guilty about that. I don't feel so guilty about it anymore. Golf gets me outdoors. It reminds me of being in the fields as a boy on the farm - outdoors in the wide open spaces. I love the challenge. Every day is different. The conditions are different. The weather is different. The courses are different. And I enjoy time with friends.
Now golf may not do it for you, but you need to know what recharges your battery and schedule it regularly. Now back to the word. I've been a Christian for 38 years, and I have been on someone's church staff since 1977. That's 34 years. That doesn't make me an expert, but I do have some tread wear on my tires. I simply want to say this: do not forget the word of God. Romans 10:17 reminds us that faith comes by hearing and hearing by the word of God.
One more thing - don't forget your family. For me time with my family helps me keep the fire burning. They know me best, yet love me most. They encourage me, challenge me, sometimes rebuke me, always love me, and are by far my greatest cheerleaders. I love them dearly. Don't isolate your family. Walk this journey together. Serve the Lord with gladness.
So - guard your heart. Don't neglect your own body, soul or spirit. Stay in the word. Find out what activities add fuel to the fire, and enjoy the journey with your family. That's all for now!
Tuesday, June 28, 2011
The Start of a Brand New Day
I've decided to enter the world of blogging. It's one more opportunity to communicate. It's from one leader's heart to another. I'm calling the blog Keep the Fire Burning. It is the theme of our pastor's and leaders conference at Northside each year. We had our first conference this past February. 200 leaders gathered from 82 churches and 7 states. The purpose was to have our faith renewed, for information and inspiration, for revival and renewal, and for encouragement. But it's bigger than that. It starts with each individual heart.
The Bible says, 'Therefore, I remind you to keep ablaze the gift of God that is in you through the laying on of my hands. For God has not given us a spirit of fearfulness, but one of power, love and sound judgment.' 2 Timothy 1:6-7, HCSB. In life and in ministry, there is a propensity for letting the fire of God's love and call die out. We are called to fan that flame. That is what I hope this blog will do. I pray it is a tool in the carpenter's hand to encourage many on their journey toward the Lord or with the Lord. Jesus is the wonderful Savior who loves us more than we can even imagine.
For the sake of souls and the glory of God, I begin this journey.
The Bible says, 'Therefore, I remind you to keep ablaze the gift of God that is in you through the laying on of my hands. For God has not given us a spirit of fearfulness, but one of power, love and sound judgment.' 2 Timothy 1:6-7, HCSB. In life and in ministry, there is a propensity for letting the fire of God's love and call die out. We are called to fan that flame. That is what I hope this blog will do. I pray it is a tool in the carpenter's hand to encourage many on their journey toward the Lord or with the Lord. Jesus is the wonderful Savior who loves us more than we can even imagine.
For the sake of souls and the glory of God, I begin this journey.
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